Mobbing monsters and not having things like Rogue's Flash powder or anything to really reduce aggro sucks.
Psychic Scream + Fade will give you time to escape a lot of bad situations. Enchanting your boots for speed helps as well.
To the original poster: For solo and PvP builds I recommend going down the DSC tree far enough to get Imp Shield, Imp Fort, and wand specialization. A few points spent to improve the damage of your SW:P/mind blast are well spent too in the early to mid lvls. Then start down the holy tree. When you respec in your 60's you can drop the shadow points all together to get a bit deeper in the holy tree, or pick up a bit of survivability. Your choice there will be determined on whether your holy priest does more raid healing or PvPing. I'd spec more heavily in disc for PvP and more holy for raiding.
Just my 2 coppers :)
Best of luck!