arena i can't really reply on it since i'm almost 67 and havent really seen arena yet. Ummmm best info i can give is try to change your talents if they are cheap to do, cold blood is a dangerous skill you dont have that on your talent page on that site you gave, one of my 70 friends was telling me to have a lot of dodge when doing pvp, my rogue without evasion has about 20.61%+ with evasion almost 80% dodge rating and if u have a trinket or too that raises dodge rate for a few seconds.
also i hear that rogues as a engineer are kinda decent to have in arena, with the grenades and trinkets they can use,
if your doing 2 vs 2, cheap shot and kidney shot are your best friends then if you vanish you can do it again.
im smacking 40.89% dodge untrinketed
i put on MoroesPocketwatch,Frostwolf insignia rank 6,
hit evasion,moroes,then Ghostly strike and I dodge at 132.23%,
Beat that Sukkers.
Rofl.....
... or you could use the pvp trinket, like any sane pvp'er does, and a DPS trinket.
Sounds like the problem you're having isn't just your spec, it's your gear. Even if you get lots of PvE epics you still won't have Resil. For arena's you need lots of resil and stam, it's all about living as long as possible. I'd suggest get honored with the outlands factions, buy their rep PvP gear then ignore PvE (yes, you're dps will take a hit but deal with it for now) and just do BG's, farm the honor and buy the Honor gear. Then when you get up around 250ish Resil start doing Arena's, you'll lose a lot still but you'll stand a better chance. Just remember Resil and Stam!...Also try going Subtlety. Oh and don't go daggers, go swords or maces.