id like to add my two pents,
first of all id like to say that words are just that, words, meant to convey ideas and thoughts, or to communicate to to others, they cannot physically  hurt someone, its all in how you take those thoughts and ideas in your mind, and for my closing statement, id like to mention, "you cant rape the willing"

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im sorry, i got cut off when my archos 604 wifi was losing batteries started the shut down, i didn't get to finish what i was saying, but since you don't seem to be willing to listen to my thoughts, and listen to gensing, then i don't see any reason to continue speaking to those with deaf ears, personally i would like top remove my comment, but since people like you seem to like adding salt to wounds im not going to remove any part of my statement (even though its incomplete) and im sorry you are unable to understand that we are trying to help

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to tell you the truth i should have let my archos shut down, instead of hitting send now that i re-read what you are going on about, i feel somewhat sorry for your view on things, and if i have offended you in any way i would like to apologize for it, but please don't flame others for somethings you think is right or wrong, try and use the social compass when you post back about my comments hun, were here to help, well most of us anyways

Actually, that was one of the most confusing things I've read at a forum in a long while. 

I'm wondering if there is miscommunication between Mad and Au5 here.  It doesn't make sense and seems 'off' from what you said in your first paragraph.

Anyway, when it all comes down to it and quite obviously, you either continue your exposure to that sort of environment or you don't, and move on.  The thing is, if you want people to chill through a community based game, you're basically asking people to behave who hide behind a monitor whom can get away with talking smack and crap.  Most likely it's never going to happen. 

-in short.  ^_~